Today I received a news from a colleague saying he's getting marry in Jan. It was quite a shock as he's always a little kid in our mind (in his act and personality), and everybody thinks that there must be 'SOMETHING' that's why he's getting marry in such a rush.
I do feel happy for this colleague and I do respect him in the way that he is taking the responsibility.
Another colleague said that 'do you think getting marry and having a family means that you will lose all the fun such as drink/movie/karaoke etc ??'
I think NOT.
Well... Happiness doesn't just come by 'drink/movie/karaoke', having a family and a kid will bring you another sort of happiness. The joy that's going to be brought by the new born is something marvalous. It's another sort of happiness that he's going to have.
And yet, the person must get more mature if he's going to hold a family. But it's in fact a stage that is going to happen sooner or later in a normal life cycle.
It's nothing to be sad or worry about, but something to be cherish for!
My Friend ... Congratulation for the marriage, and thank God for the gift that he's bringing you!
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I was shocked. Yesterday he's a jerk like me. Next month he's a husband and a would-be father. He's a real grown-up now. I'm sure he's going to be a very good husband !
Ron
a "would-be father" can still be a jerk! HAHAHAH
Ron .. time for you to do something!!! ;-)
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